Hello.
Tomorrow is my school's final exam (UAS) and I am not studying at all; I write this instead of studying. Great.
This is just a random rant about my classmates again; because observing society is fun, really.

So there is one girl in my class who is, um, kinda have a close relationship with someone in my class to. They don't want to be together (based of what I heard) but they are practically together in every time possible - so, I don't get the point why they don't want to go on a proper relationship instead.

And her friends, apparently, are not fond by their relationship. I found this funny because the friends are her really best friend, I mean, like a circle of friends, you know, that typical circle of friends that will go to bathroom together, or go to canteen together, you know what I mean?

And the funniest thing is how they talk behind her about her relationship. Actually I don't know this fact for sure, but, yesterday this circle was gossiping about their friend in canteen. I didn't mean to eavesdropping them, but I had to sat near them when I ate my lunch. They didn't mind me being there, tho, knowing that I wouldn't tell that to her.
So, yes, I stayed and listened to all their rants about their particular friend.

They didn't approve their relationship because she's become more annoying. She neglected her friends, she didn't do the group project because she was busy talking with her, um, her crush? Well, anyway, in short, she is annoying.

What I didn't get was - why didn't they try to talk to her? I mean, they are her friends, right? Friends can remind her if she's being jerk or something, right? Why talk behind her back, why not talk to her directly, why, I thought it will be more convenient?

I remind you once again, I don't know this fact for sure. Maybe they already talk in their own groupchat or something - I don't know. Okay.

This gossiping thing was happening on Saturday.
And then on Saturday evening, her 'boyfriend' was changing his Whatsapp status from 'Yup' to 'How rude, visible, mocking.'
I don't know if this status is for them, lmao, but I think it is. Or is it just me who easily jump into conclusion, idk.

Because on that Saturday, when her friends were gossiping on the canteen, she was alone with her 'boyfriend' in the class, and she got that bad mood expression all over her face. I think she knew that she was being talked by her friends.
But she let them.
Because she can't do anything about that, lmao.
So I stayed with her in the class just for a simple chat and play along with her 'nothing-is-happening' action for the rest of school time. It was lucky for her because her friends were skipping school after the first period.

It is funny, isn't it?

I mean, is that what they called friends? Or is it just a society? Oh, great, I think it's a society.
I think it's better to talk to her face to face about this right away - and peacefully search for a solution.
If she's ignoring her friends, why don't you ask her why is she doing that, why you ignoring us, why you don't play with us again, etc. etc.
If she doesn't do the group project, why don't you tell her, half-jokingly (for the sake of peacefulness) to do the work too.
Why, why, why.

I don't get it. Or is it just me. Who never socializing with people. Is this how society works these days.
And like what I said in my 'Funny Things' post earlier;
Why you make friends if in the end you will talk about them on their back, seriously.

Labels: HIGHSCHOOL, thought