I mostly have different opinion with my classmates, like, the way I think about agreeing to lgbt's freedom and my classmates think that those matters are illegal and should be banned.
Nice. Why I bring out that topic because this one post is slightly,
I repeat, slightly has a relation with that topic.
Or I think so.
Well, this is about my friends who are kind of having too much skinship with each other. Females. They are best friends, and most of my friend thought that they are
disgusting because they are too clingy with each other. Well, what's wrong with being too clingy?
From my point of view, the other friends, I mean, the ones who usually hang out with them too, start to stay away from them little by little.
And the worst thing is (in my opinion tho) those friends talk behind them about this. They think that that two friends is being like this, blah, blah, blah... My deskmate also complained about this yesterday.
Hoi, guys, are you jealous because the one that she trust isn't you? I mean, if you are really her friends, you should tell her right away that her 'too-much-lovey-dovey' actions is bothering you. Don't talk behind her back like that!
Today, she chatted an apologize text in our class whatsapp group chat, and somehow everyone start to blame her and they tell her about their feelings of disgust.
Well, I just laughed when I saw the chat when I got wi-fi signal this evening.
Anyway, the part that I hate the most is when the friends talk about this behind her back. Let me tell about the situation first.
It's about a group that contains well-known students in my class, the celebrities, the extroverts, the popular, you get what I mean? And somehow I think that the friendship there is just too shallow. Well I don't know for sure, but this opinion is proofed by some of their actions.
And the action is... talk behind someone's back.
Whoa, the power of words.
I am in the neutral group. Tbh, I don't have a trustworthy friend in this class. I am independence! So, sometimes my appearance is just like Kuroko. Everyone just talk like I don't exist.
Sigh.
Well, it's kind of benefit, actually.
Well, back to the topic.
There's one day when my deskmate (which is also part of the popular group) told me about person A in that group which is being too wishy washy with her decision. And the topic expanded to the bad things that the person A have done.
There's one day when person B in that group talk with person C also from that group about person D from that group as well because she was getting angry and moody easily.
There's one day when person E talk with person F and me about his playboy nature and how everyone in the group is being seduced by him.
And there's one day when everyone in the group talk about this 'too clingy' friendship.
I'm so done.
Maybe this popular group isn't that serious when it comes to friendship. I mean, come on, if you are all friends, you shouldn't be afraid to tell them what's wrong in their actions, and don't just talk about their bad habit with everyone!
Pssh, I'm so mad about this. Why you make friends if in the end you will talk about them in their back seriously.
Labels: friendship, HIGHSCHOOL, thought, Whatever